I was a boy scout in high school and was one of the few that made it to eagle. I got a LOT of opportunities to do leadership things there mostly with younger teenagers like all you clan members. At my Eagle board of review one of the big things they pushed was to give back and be a leader in my community and hopefully a boy scout troop. I still go with on campouts sometimes during the summer when my schedule permits.
I can only think of one person I know that fits all of those leadership criteria. A very rare breed indeed.
I'm not counting arrogant elitist bastard leaders like our politicians either
They wouldn't count anyways because if you are everything on that list you are a good leader